{"id":70,"date":"2013-10-07T14:02:16","date_gmt":"2013-10-07T14:02:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flingmanual.com\/?p=70"},"modified":"2019-01-22T16:40:31","modified_gmt":"2019-01-22T16:40:31","slug":"what-women-find-sexy-in-a-fling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/what-women-find-sexy-in-a-fling.html","title":{"rendered":"What Women Find Sexy In A Fling"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-71\" title=\"What Women Find Sexy In A Fling\" alt=\"What-Women-Find-Sexy-In-A-Fling\" src=\"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blogwp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/What-Women-Find-Sexy-In-A-Fling.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/What-Women-Find-Sexy-In-A-Fling.jpg 400w, https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/What-Women-Find-Sexy-In-A-Fling-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/What-Women-Find-Sexy-In-A-Fling-250x187.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>It doesn\u2019t matter whether you\u2019re trying to find a fling or whether you\u2019ve already got a sex buddy and you\u2019re hoping to keep the spark alive, it\u2019s important to know what traits a woman finds sexy in a guy when it comes to <span style=\"background-color: #ffffcc;\">casual sex or a fling<\/span>. If you\u2019re thinking entirely about looks, you\u2019re thinking like a guy. Here\u2019s what women say is hot when it comes to flings.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>It\u2019s All in Your Head<\/h3>\n<p>For women, sexy is mainly a state of mind. Women love confident men. Let\u2019s look at some famous guys who do quite well with the ladies. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lylelovett.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Lyle Lovett<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mickjagger.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Mick Jagger<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mtv.com\/artists\/prince\/\" target=\"_blank\">Prince<\/a> have all been around for long enough that we can\u2019t attribute their sex appeal to being because they\u2019re newly famous, and therefore hot, no matter what they do. We also can\u2019t really attribute the women falling at their feet to their looks. Neither Lyle Lovett nor Mick Jagger have great looking faces. Prince is scrawny; he\u2019s really short and has a skinny, wiry body that isn\u2019t very muscular. So what is it? They <em>all drip confidence<\/em>. All three of them swagger, and when they speak, they sound fully self-possessed and sure of themselves. Women throw themselves at these men, and it\u2019s no accident. Fame and fortune aside, we all have that one buddy who is nothing special to look at, yet always has hot girls. We can bet money that he <a title=\"How To Be Confident\" href=\"https:\/\/socialtriggers.com\/how-to-be-confident\/\" target=\"_blank\">exudes confidence<\/a>.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Funny is a Close Second<\/h3>\n<p>All women love a guy who can make them laugh, and this seems to be doubly as important when we\u2019re talking about flings. When a woman is <span style=\"background-color: #ffffcc;\"> having a fling<\/span>, she\u2019s in it for the fun of it. It isn\u2019t about love. It\u2019s about feeling good. Sex feels good. Laughing feels good. If you are able to give her both, chances are high that she\u2019s going to keep coming back for more. If you\u2019ve ever hooked up with a girl who is great in bed and has a fierce <a title=\"Attract Her With Humor \" href=\"https:\/\/www.askmen.com\/top_10\/dating_top_ten_150\/161_dating_list.html\" target=\"_blank\">sense of humor<\/a>, you know that this combination can feel like striking gold. How many dudes have a crush on Tina Fey? Probably about as many women who watch the Colbert report and get a little bit swoony. Funny is sexy. Period.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>A Sense of Adventure Keeps Things Fresh With Your Fling<\/h3>\n<p>If sex with your <span style=\"background-color: #ffffcc\"> fling<\/span> has fallen into a routine, it\u2019s time to shake things up. If you always have sex at your place on Wed afternoons, and you know exactly how it is going to go because you always do the exact same things in the same order, she\u2019s going to get bored and start looking for a new hookup. Having sex in different places, at different times, and trying new sex acts will go a long way towards keeping things as fun and fresh as they were the first time you got it on. Most women crave variety when it comes to sex, and the more you can expand your sexual repertoire, the more likely it is that both of you will have fun. If you\u2019re feeling short on ideas, get her to share her <a title=\"Top 5 Female Fantasies\" href=\"https:\/\/women.webmd.com\/features\/womens-top-five-sexual-fantasies-and-what-they-mean\" target=\"_blank\">fantasies<\/a> with you and see if you can make some of them come true.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Aspu1wNKqQc\" allowfullscreen=\"\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Ask Her What She Finds Sexy<\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re worried that this will sound lame, don\u2019t stress. It won\u2019t. Women love being asked about their opinions and preferences. This is true from the time you make first contact on a <span style=\"background-color: #ffffcc;\"> fling dating site<\/span> all the way through every phase of your fling. She\u2019ll be flattered that you cared enough to ask, and she\u2019ll probably give you plenty of material to work with in order to keep the sexy in your sex life. Dialogue about such things, in and of itself, is foreplay for a lot of women. You don\u2019t have to make it a big, heavy conversation. Be flirtatious and playful in your questioning, and you\u2019ll get serious information to make yourself more appealing. Take mental notes of every conversation like this you ever have with a woman because what you learn from one may very well help you out with the next girl you have a fling with, too. If you pay attention, before long you\u2019ll be an expert on women and will be able to help out your clueless friends about what makes women tick when it comes to casual sex.<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<h1 class=\"claimlnk2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instanthookups.com\/dating\/sidescroll\/88822\/flingmanual-blogpost-women-find-sexy-in-fling-SS\" target=\"_blank\">Special Offer For Our Visitors &#8211; Try Instant Hookups For Free<\/a><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It doesn\u2019t matter whether you\u2019re trying to find a fling or whether you\u2019ve already got a sex buddy and you\u2019re hoping to keep the spark alive, it\u2019s important to know what traits a woman finds sexy in a guy when it comes to casual sex or a fling. 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