{"id":64,"date":"2013-10-07T14:00:10","date_gmt":"2013-10-07T14:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flingmanual.com\/?p=64"},"modified":"2019-01-22T16:41:33","modified_gmt":"2019-01-22T16:41:33","slug":"go-from-friend-to-fling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/go-from-friend-to-fling.html","title":{"rendered":"How to Go From Friend to Fling"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-65\" title=\"How To Go From Friend to Fling\" alt=\"How-to-Go-From-Friend-to-Fling\" src=\"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blogwp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/How-to-Go-From-Friend-to-Fling.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/How-to-Go-From-Friend-to-Fling.jpg 400w, https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/How-to-Go-From-Friend-to-Fling-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/How-to-Go-From-Friend-to-Fling-250x187.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>Every guy knows the frustration of finding himself sexually attracted to one of his gal pals and being uncertain about how to move <span style=\"background-color: #ffffcc;\">from just friends\u2019 territory into fling<\/span>. If you\u2019re hoping that you can turn your plain old buddy into a sex buddy, don\u2019t despair. It\u2019s totally possible, and it can be easier than you think. If you\u2019d rather be in bed with her than going for a run on Saturday mornings, here\u2019s how it\u2019s done.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Make Your Feelings Known, you want a fling!<\/h3>\n<p>This may sound like a no brainer, but a lot of guys never seem to get around to it. If you want a girl to consider you as potential <span style=\"background-color: #ffffcc;\">fling<\/span> material, you have to find ways to let her know, subtly or not so subtly, that you think she\u2019s hot. She could very well be attracted to you, but uncertain about <a title=\"How to tell if she is into you\" href=\"https:\/\/www.glamour.com\/sex-love-life\/2009\/09\/12-secret-signs-hes-into-you\" target=\"_blank\">whether it\u2019s mutual<\/a>. It can be nerve wracking, but what\u2019s the worst that can happen? No one likes rejection, but you\u2019re already not having sex with her, so you don\u2019t really have much to lose. You should also keep in mind that lots of chicks develop a physical attraction towards their guy friends, so it isn\u2019t totally outrageous to think that it\u2019s mutual. The worst case scenario is that you don\u2019t end up sleeping with her, but the best case scenario could be that you end up having a hot fling with your hot friend.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Be There When She Gets Dumped<\/h3>\n<p>Do you know what a lot of women do as soon as they get dumped by a boyfriend? <span style=\"background-color: #ffffcc;\">They have a fling!<\/span> It really doesn\u2019t matter whether she\u2019s doing it to rebuild her self-esteem so that she feels desirable again, to get back at the guy, or just to have some fun and take her mind off the breakup, if you want to get her in bed, this is a great opportunity. Women are at their most vulnerable right after they\u2019ve been dumped, so be sure to hang out with her during this time. Look, she\u2019s going to have a fling with someone, so it might as well be you! Just make sure that you make it clear that you\u2019d love to help take her mind off the guy by having some fun, not that you want to be the replacement <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oprah.com\/packages\/finding-and-keeping-the-love-of-your-life.html\" target=\"_blank\">love of her life<\/a>, or you\u2019ll create a situation that won\u2019t be worth whatever fun you might have with her in bed.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/yshw4-irGCI\" allowfullscreen=\"\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Make Physical Contact with your potential fling<\/h3>\n<p>When it comes to turning male\/female friendships into <a href=\"https:\/\/www.styleforum.net\/t\/220809\/friends-with-benefits-arrangement-how-did-you-set-it-up\" target=\"_blank\">friends with benefits arrangements<\/a>, one of the best ways to subconsciously steer her in that direction is to make lots of casual physical contact. Playful brushes, touching her arm when you talk to her and other small physical gestures will allow you to subtly see how she responds. If she looks uncomfortable or moves away from you, she\u2019s clearly not comfortable. If, on the other hand, her hugs goodbye linger, she\u2019s probably into you. Pay attention and you\u2019ll know very quickly whether or not you\u2019ll get a positive response if you try to take it further.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Skip the Friend Part and Go Straight to Fling<\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re really set on hooking up with a particular friend for <span style=\"background-color: #ffffcc;\"> casual sex<\/span>, the steps above will give you the best possible chance of doing that. If she\u2019s that hot or the attraction is that strong, it could very well be worth your time. On the other hand, if it\u2019s not so much about one particular woman and you\u2019re only considering it because you don\u2019t know of any other easy way to find a fling you can save your time and energy. Instead of trying to figure out whether a female friend might be down for some casual sex on the side, you can find a sex buddy on a casual dating site. You won\u2019t have to worry about offending a girl because she wasn\u2019t on the same page as you, because everyone is there for the same thing; casual sex! 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There are lots of options, and if you\u2019re a guy who wants a long list of <span style=\"background-color: #ffffcc;\"> flings or sex buddies<\/span> to choose from, you should utilize as many as possible.<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<h1 class=\"claimlnk2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instanthookups.com\/dating\/sidescroll\/88822\/flingmanual-blogpost-findfling-anywhere-SS\" target=\"_blank\">Special Offer For Our Visitors &#8211; Try Instant Hookups For Free<\/a><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every guy knows the frustration of finding himself sexually attracted to one of his gal pals and being uncertain about how to move from just friends\u2019 territory into fling. If you\u2019re hoping that you can turn your plain old buddy into a sex buddy, don\u2019t despair. It\u2019s totally possible, and it can be easier than [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":65,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[41,7,100,108,105,54,106,107],"class_list":["post-64","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","tag-c-dating","tag-find-a-fling","tag-fling","tag-friends-with-benefits-agreement","tag-from-friend-to-fling","tag-have-a-fling","tag-hooking-up-with-friends","tag-sex-buddy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":535,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64\/revisions\/535"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}