{"id":56,"date":"2013-10-07T13:57:15","date_gmt":"2013-10-07T13:57:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flingmanual.com\/?p=56"},"modified":"2019-01-22T16:42:30","modified_gmt":"2019-01-22T16:42:30","slug":"fling-tips-from-pickup-artists","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/fling-tips-from-pickup-artists.html","title":{"rendered":"Fling Tips from Pickup Artists"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Fling-Tips-from-Pickup-Artists\"If you think of pick up artists as those sleazy guys in bars that have their shirts unbuttoned to their navel, sporting gold chains and a greasy ponytail, you\u2019re way off base. Sure, those clowns exist, but they\u2019re not pickup artists<\/span>, they\u2019re pickup failures. We\u2019re not talking about losers who use canned lines that make women roll their eyes and run in the other direction. True pickup artists have mastered getting (and keeping) a woman\u2019s interest, which makes them the perfect guys<\/a> to consult when you\u2019re looking to meet a fling.<\/span>
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Mastering the Approach of Pickup Artists<\/h3>\n

A great pickup artist<\/a> will tell you that it\u2019s possible to find flings anywhere if you approach them correctly. A lot of this depends on body language and confidence. You want to come across as strong and confident, but totally non-threatening and not pushy. If you see a girl on the street that you\u2019d like to hook up with, don\u2019t follow her down the sidewalk yelling after her. This will just give her the creeps. Say something to her, and then immediately stop walking. Stand still, right where you are, and give her the chance to stop or turn around and walk back to where you\u2019re standing to talk to you. If you\u2019re at a dog park, a bar, or anywhere else where people are fairly stationary, move into her vicinity before speaking to her, but don\u2019t crowd her. If you shove your way into her personal space, she\u2019ll likely feel uncomfortable and bolt. Wait until she\u2019s responding to you to move in closer.
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Make Real Conversation<\/h3>\n

Being flirtatious is good, but using cheesy, overdone lines is bad. One of the best ways to do that is to ask her a question about herself and then showing a genuine interest in her answer. If you pay attention to whatever she says in response, you can use it as a springboard for another question, and then offer her something related about yourself. This will build a sense of commonality that will make it a lot easier to lead her towards hooking up.
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Use Touch to Your Advantage<\/h3>\n

Every skillful pickup artist<\/span> will tell you that knowing how and when to touch a woman during a conversation is one of the best ways to build up the familiarity and intimacy that is necessary to get her into bed. The key is to start slowly, with casual brushes that seem accidental, or only the briefest, lightest touch of the arm. As you watch her body language <\/a>and how she responds to these small touches, you\u2019ll be able to figure out how far you can take it without making her uncomfortable. This also gives you a good idea about how open she\u2019ll be to the suggestion to take it somewhere more private.
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