{"id":462,"date":"2014-11-14T17:55:29","date_gmt":"2014-11-14T17:55:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flingmanual.com\/?p=462"},"modified":"2017-02-18T19:22:06","modified_gmt":"2017-02-18T19:22:06","slug":"new-to-fling-dating-what-you-need-to-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/new-to-fling-dating-what-you-need-to-know.html","title":{"rendered":"New To Fling Dating? What You Need To Know"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"NewThere are a multitude of reasons why people venture into the exciting world of fling dating. The reasons change as we grow older but the allure is still there. It isn\u2019t an easy decision. The concept of fling dating is fairly new and so are the rules that have developed with it. There are no hard and solid rules about fling dating<\/a>, as it morphs and changes and bends to suit the couple involved. However, as in any of life\u2019s dating conundrums, there are some general common sense ground rules. There are a few guidelines to follow that will make your transition into fling dating relatively easy and much more fun.
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Keep Your Newbie Status to Yourself<\/h3>\n

While we are all for openness and honesty in all relationships, do not let on that you are new to the fling dating world. Women who enter into fling dating relationships are not out for commitment. That is not to say they are adverse to it but they are not solely searching out that type of relationship. It is more of an \u201cif it happens, it happens\u201d type of situation. Don\u2019t announce your newbie status by being shy, stammering and saying odd things. If you just aren\u2019t feeling the confidence right away, fake it. Keep your comments to a minimum and think about everything you say before you say it. Stay calm<\/a> and take everything in stride. Don\u2019t let anything surprise you or make you angry. It is imperative to stay cool, calm and collected. You want to give the impression that you are an old hat at this game and know all the tricks.
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Do not Over compensate<\/h3>\n

When it is your first time doing anything, men tend to over compensate for their short coming by being cocky, bold and brash. That will not work for you here. Women appreciate and are attracted to an air of confidence, but being arrogant<\/a> will be counterproductive. What works instead is a calm demeanor and a strong interest in your date. If you behave as if you are the best catch in the world but you are only interested in her, she will feel that. This situation is actually a precursor to lovemaking where men must feel their partner is enjoying it as much as he is in order to climax. Instead, however, it is the woman who must feel the man is enjoying her company and interested only in her AND worthy of her attention before she can carry on.
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