{"id":43,"date":"2013-10-07T13:34:33","date_gmt":"2013-10-07T13:34:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flingmanual.com\/?p=43"},"modified":"2013-10-11T03:42:21","modified_gmt":"2013-10-11T03:42:21","slug":"step-7-casual-dating-first-emails","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/step-7-casual-dating-first-emails.html","title":{"rendered":"Chapter #7 – Your First Email: Templates That GUARANTEE a Great Response Rate!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Step-#7\"In general, men suck at writing introduction emails to women they are hoping to hookup or have a fling<\/span> with. If you\u2019re thinking that this is bad news because you\u2019re pretty sure you\u2019re one of them, you\u2019re wrong! This is actually really good news for you. Since most guys don\u2019t know how to write the kind of introduction email that will get good looking women to respond, once we show you how, you\u2019re really going to stand out from the crowd!<\/p>\n

Your first impression set by the email you send. If you make a bad first impression, or almost worse, none at all, you\u2019re never going to hear back from the women you\u2019re contacting. And guess what? If you never hear back from them, you\u2019re never going to get laid.<\/p>\n

We tested hundreds of different styles<\/strong> for writing first emails to women on casual dating sites. Our testers compiled the data to see which email templates worked and which ones didn\u2019t, taking the guesswork out of the process for you. With these incredibly simply tips and tricks, you\u2019ll have more women responding to you than ever before, which means that you\u2019re going to be having more sex than ever before!<\/p>\n

Not Like This! How to Compose a Crappy Email That Turns Women Off:<\/h2>\n

\u2022 Be Perverted \u2013<\/b> \u201cGod damn, girl! Your tits can\u2019t be real, Jesus Christ! Luckily for you, I don\u2019t care if they\u2019re real. I can\u2019t wait to have my cock squeezed in between those jugs. Don\u2019t worry, I\u2019m not all about me, though. I can eat pussy for days. I\u2019ll make you squirt like a super soaker. Hit me up and I\u2019ll give it to you good.”<\/i><\/p>\n

\u2022 Sound Stupid and Illiterate \u2013<\/b> \u201cB4 we meet U shud no that I think you\u2019re totally hot and I will treat you like a queen. I no we R all just looking 4 sex here, but I am also a romantic. You can expect a bubble bath with rose pedals, followed bi a long and senshual message. Lets conversate and see where things go.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

\u2022 Showcase How Boring and Average You Are \u2013<\/b> \u201cHi, my name is Joe and I am contacting you because you are the most beautiful woman I\u2019ve ever seen. I\u2019m a computer programmer, have two cats, and love going to the movies. If that sounds good to you, let\u2019s meet for coffee.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

When our testers sent messages like these, they were consistently ignored. When a response was received, they were usually angry and mean, and the women were definitely not interested in meeting any of these guys in person let alone have a fling with them!<\/span><\/p>\n

The first example<\/b> is just too perverse. It won\u2019t turn any woman on. If anything, it will creep her out. She doesn\u2019t know you. It\u2019s too forward and too sexual. If you want to get laid, don\u2019t explicitly mention any sex acts in the first email.<\/p>\n

The second example<\/b> goes to show that any woman with a brain will not want to talk to, let alone have sex with, a guy who comes across as an idiot. Don\u2019t use chat speak, and if you can\u2019t spell to save your life, use Spellcheck!<\/p>\n

The third example<\/b> is the most benign, but it\u2019s just lame. Poor Joe isn\u2019t a pervert or an idiot, but he\u2019s equally unappealing. What about that message would entice a woman to waste her precious time replying to you? Nothing.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s How It\u2019s Done! For Best Results, (Copy\/Paste) These Examples For A Guaranteed 90% Response<\/h2>\n

Use them On Our Approved Fling Sites<\/a>:<\/h3>\n

Example 1 –<\/b> I feel like I just found a unicorn! I was beginning to think that women who are both beautiful and intelligent on this site were purely mythological. Seriously, though, it\u2019s crazy how many profiles you have to sift through to find anyone worth talking to. Stumbling across yours made my day! I loved the clever play on words you used to describe your ideal date. I really appreciate a girl with a sense of humor. Prove to me that magic is real by sending me something that will make me laugh and I\u2019ll try to do the same for you!<\/p>\n

Example 2 – <\/b> When I saw your profile I thought at first that it must be fake, because I\u2019ve yet to see anyone of your caliber on a dating site. I mean, you sound incredibly intelligent, and I\u2019m a total sucker for a girl with green eyes and dimples. I imagine that you must have tons of guys trying to get your attention in real life. Can you please do me a favor? Hit me up on chat and explain to me why you\u2019re on here!<\/p>\n

Example 3 – <\/b>Are you wondering if there are any decent guys on here? Because I was beginning to wonder if there were any decent women on this site until I found your profile! It\u2019s so refreshing to find someone like you. You seem really cool, and the fact that you weren\u2019t naked in your pictures and know how to spell made my heart skip a beat. Will you send me a quick note confirming that you\u2019re actually real? You seem almost too good to be true<\/p>\n

\"Do<\/a><\/p>\n

The reason that these emails worked is because they all follow a few simple guidelines<\/span> that make responses more likely. Here are the things they incorporated that you\u2019ll want to use in your own emails.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Short and to the point
\n\u2022 Use proper spelling and grammar
\n\u2022 Personalized enough to show that you read the woman\u2019s profile and looked at her pictures
\n\u2022 Show a sense of humor without being over the top
\n\u2022 They all issue a call to respond by asking a small question
\n\u2022 They are flattering without being overtly sexual<\/strong><\/p>\n

Women on casual dating & fling sites<\/span> get way more emails than men. Keep it short or she probably won\u2019t read the whole thing. Use proper spelling and grammar so that you sound intelligent, and have a sense of humor so that she\u2019ll know you won\u2019t put her to sleep with your dull personality. Be complimentary without being lewd, so that she\u2019ll know you think she\u2019s attractive. Wrap up the whole thing with some sort of request or question. This will prompt her to respond far more than simply saying, \u201cHit me up!\u201d<\/i> ever will.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In general, men suck at writing introduction emails to women they are hoping to hookup or have a fling with. If you\u2019re thinking that this is bad news because you\u2019re pretty sure you\u2019re one of them, you\u2019re wrong! This is actually really good news for you. Since most guys don\u2019t know how to write the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":44,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[12,14,18,7,30,27,33,10,9,11,19,16,25,34,26,29,8,28,22,17],"class_list":["post-43","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-steps","tag-casual-dating","tag-casual-sex","tag-erotic-ads","tag-find-a-fling","tag-find-a-fling-online","tag-find-a-hook-up","tag-find-vulnerable-women","tag-fling-dating","tag-fling-scams","tag-fling-sites","tag-fuckbook","tag-have-a-flng","tag-hook-up-sites","tag-hook-up-with-vulnerable-women","tag-hookup-sites","tag-how-to-meet-a-fling","tag-meet-a-fling","tag-meet-a-hook-up-online","tag-sites-like-social-sex","tag-social-sex"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":291,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43\/revisions\/291"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}