{"id":27,"date":"2013-10-07T13:29:40","date_gmt":"2013-10-07T13:29:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/flingmanual.com\/?p=27"},"modified":"2013-10-11T03:38:20","modified_gmt":"2013-10-11T03:38:20","slug":"step-2-writing-killer-profile-to-find-fling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/step-2-writing-killer-profile-to-find-fling.html","title":{"rendered":"Chapter #2 – Writing a Killer Profile Geared Towards Finding a Fling"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Step-#2\"When you\u2019re hoping to find a fling<\/span>, you\u2019ve got to have a killer profile. This is your first impression, and if your profile sucks, you\u2019re not going to get a chance to make a second. If you want to get laid, you need to portray yourself in the best possible light. This means using proper grammar, being interesting, and most importantly, clear about who you are, what you\u2019re looking for, and what you have to offer.<\/p>\n

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Come Across as Confident (Whether or Not You Are)<\/center><\/h3>\n

Confidence is sexy. To most women, a lack of self-confidence is a huge turn-off. You\u2019re not trying to make someone fall in love with you. You\u2019re trying to get someone to meet you for a hookup<\/strong>. That means you need to avoid looking like a sap or someone who isn\u2019t going to have the confidence to take control in the bedroom in order to give her an unforgettable sexual experience. If you aren\u2019t confident, fake it. Here are some surefire ways to come across as someone who is solid and sure of themselves.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Avoid Putting Yourself Down \u2013<\/b> Do not say anything, no matter how small, that is negative about yourself. Every last adjective you use to define yourself should be positive.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be Funny as Hell \u2013<\/b> This shows that you are confident without making you come across as an arrogant jerk. Work some humor into your profile, because women looking for a sex buddy are looking for fun.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Look Like You Have a Life \u2013<\/b> You don\u2019t have to ramble on and on about the ins and outs of your daily life, but do try to include a few hobbies and interests. The women you\u2019re going after are the ones who want to have sex with you, not build a relationship. That being said, no one is going to want to fuck you if you don\u2019t come across as having a life outside of your casual dating profile and watching porn.<\/p>\n

Key Components of Your Killer Fling Profile<\/h2>\n

Be Sexy, Not Sleazy<\/b>
\nIn other words, don\u2019t rock out with your cock out. It\u2019s good to give a tasteful description of what you\u2019re hoping for in a hookup, but don\u2019t get too nasty. Save the truly dirty talk for private conversations, when it seems appropriate. You don\u2019t have to reveal everything all at once. Leaving a bit to the imagination is sexier than baring it all right up front.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Just Talk About What You Want<\/b>
\nNo one likes being with a selfish sex buddy. Let the ladies know that you love to give as much as you like to receive. Hint at the fact that you have mad skills and enjoy practicing them.<\/p>\n

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\nDon\u2019t be Unrealistically Picky<\/b>
\nIf you give an incredibly detailed description of all of the physical and personality traits you find to be sexy, chances are high that you won\u2019t get many responses. Sure, the chicks reading your profile would probably love it if you looked like Brad Pitt, but unless you do, don\u2019t expect to find Angelina Jolie.<\/p>\n

Profile Examples of What Works<\/h2>\n

After sifting through thousands of profiles to see which ones are working for casual dating site users, I came up with a couple of profiles \u201cabout me\u201d that work to get responses from women. When creating yours profile follow a similar process as the following<\/p>\n

Example #1 – Let\u2019s have some fun! If you work as hard as I do all week, by the time Saturday rolls around you probably want to let it all go with something a little more pleasurable. If you love to laugh and enjoy a guy who gives as well as he gets, let\u2019s meet for a drink.<\/i><\/p>\n

Example #2 – Competitive surfer would like to take a break from the waves to compete for the title of, \u201cMost Fun You\u2019ve Ever Had in One Night.\u201d I\u2019m a giver by nature, and I love to be the best at anything I try. I\u2019m never satisfied until I\u2019ve given my all to anything I do. Hit me up and we\u2019ll see if I can live up to my own standards!”<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll notice that both of these guys appear confident without sounding like jerks. Both of them talk about loving to have fun, and they both make it clear that they enjoy pleasuring women. They also both hint at sex without saying anything too explicit or crass. This is how it\u2019s done if you want to entice real women to respond to your profile.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019re hoping to find a fling, you\u2019ve got to have a killer profile. This is your first impression, and if your profile sucks, you\u2019re not going to get a chance to make a second. If you want to get laid, you need to portray yourself in the best possible light. This means using proper […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":28,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[12,14,18,7,30,27,10,9,11,19,16,15,25,26,29,8,28,13,20,21,24,22,17,23],"class_list":["post-27","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-steps","tag-casual-dating","tag-casual-sex","tag-erotic-ads","tag-find-a-fling","tag-find-a-fling-online","tag-find-a-hook-up","tag-fling-dating","tag-fling-scams","tag-fling-sites","tag-fuckbook","tag-have-a-flng","tag-hook-up","tag-hook-up-sites","tag-hookup-sites","tag-how-to-meet-a-fling","tag-meet-a-fling","tag-meet-a-hook-up-online","tag-sex-dating","tag-sex-finder","tag-sites-like-fling","tag-sites-like-fuckbook","tag-sites-like-social-sex","tag-social-sex","tag-socialsex"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27"}],"version-history":[{"count":21,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":283,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27\/revisions\/283"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/28"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/flingmanual.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}